Writing a blog is a blast and a privilege. You want to do it on a daily basis at least, and if possible, maybe several times a day. Each time you want to come up with something new and creative to wow the party (or parties) for which you perform, and at the conclusion, you'd like nothing more than positive feedback and a glowing review. The similarities to sex are quite striking.
Of course, like sex, you can't really force it. Oh, I know you can go through the motions. You can bang out a sub-par performance that's not really inspiring to either you or your audience just to have it done and over with. Sometimes you just don't really feel like you're in the mood. Other times, you want to give it your all but for some reason you can't seem to get it up... er, I mean out. Like words. Get the words out. It's hard, and sometimes she just doesn't come.
I'm envious of people that have a never-ending supply of good stuff. They could finish off at once, and then turn right around and do it again. Maybe a short break in between, but it's like they're always energized and ready. Inspiration at every turn. Like little machines, they have a "go for it" attitude that gives them incredible endurance. One right after another.
I guess I'm not that kind of guy. I like to take my time, caress everything and go over it and over it and over it again and again. It has to feel right. I try to make sure and pay attention to all the details. Things need to fit properly, and both I and my audience should get a sense of pure satisfaction out of the finished product. Sometimes you just can't rush things. Give them a really great time and let them savor it for a bit.
You have to be careful too. Too much force or pressure or unpopular opinion and things could go badly. Feelings could be hurt or worse, you could lose the trust and support of those who may be interested. You have to protect yourself as well. Don't say the wrong things and don't take anything for granted. Watch out for viruses that can corrupt your system and bring the whole shebang crashing down.
If it doesn't feel right, maybe it's best just to put it off until later. If you aren't excited and ready, you won't do your best work. If you're tired or have a headache, you can't give it your all. Your audience deserves the best you can give them. Be in the right frame of mind and they will appreciate your effort. Don't get their expectations up and just leave them hanging. If it's just not working, pull out and try again later.
Yeah, it's like that; parallels. You gotta feel it. Writing a blog is great after all. If you're good at it and word gets around, pretty soon people will come from all over wanting to see what you got. You've achieved penetration, reached a certain level where you can spread your stuff far and wide. Perhaps you'll even inspire people and spawn others like yourself. Little versions of you wanting to do what you've done and be like you. Encourage them.
You'll know when it feels right. When everything seems to flow, and you feel like you're about to explode. It's one of the best feelings ever. Believe me, I know. And share it with others. Sure, you can do it just for yourself, but where's the fun in that? Collaboration is good. Get multiple people involved. Make new friends. The more, the merrier.
Yes, writing a blog is a blast and a privilege, but also a lot of work. You have to know what you're doing and be willing to experiment sometimes. Just don't force it. Let it ride.
