This would give you guides on how to control your emotions towards your peers, friends, officemates and people around you, especially your boss.
- Anyone who got mad first has the right to be mad. If someone got mad first than you, then you should let him to express his emotions. For the mean time, just be cool and silent. And please do not argue with him.
- No one will get mad or fight with himself alone. So if you never contest or argue or even talk to someone that is mad to you, then sooner or later he will stop talking.
- If someone is mad, he is considered deaf. If someone is angry, he will never listen to anyone, so don't try to explain and fight back, he will never consider or understand you because he will only hear nothing except to himself.
- An angry man is considered an autistic. According to a priest, this is quite biblical because the Lord said when He was crucified, "Father forgive them for they know not what they do". The modern term for these kinds of people is autistic, so you better not get angry so no one will call you autistic.
You should also know and realize that the persons who make your day bad are jewels, because you need them for you to be mature. If these people still annoys you, then it only means that you are still immature. God will not take away those people. It's for you to take away your bad feelings towards them. You'll know that you are mature enough if the time comes that you never felt any anger or annoying feeling to these people. It is the time in which you learned to accept them with patience. - Finally, the best part of this is to tell and motivate yourself with the quote: “because of this person, I will grow mature and because of his/her contribution in my life and my maturity, God will take him sooner or later”.
